“What’s on Your Mind?” Friend, October 2020
What’s on Your Mind?
Sometimes I feel scared or embarrassed when I need to talk to my parents about something important. I feel like I don’t know what to say. What should I do?—Bottled-up in Baltimore
Illustration by Garth Bruner
Dear Bottled-up,
You’re not the only one who feels this way. With some practice, you can feel more comfortable talking about what’s on your mind.
Sometimes the hardest part is starting the conversation. Try starting out by saying what you feel. For example, you could say, “I want to talk to you about something, but I feel kind of embarrassed about it.” You can use some of these tips to help you.
You can do it!
The Friend
Try these tips for talking to your parents or other adults.
Ask Heavenly Father to help you know what to say. You can also pray to feel calm and have courage.
Practice what you want to say ahead of time, or write it down.
Find a good time. You can say, “When is a good time for us to talk?”
Choose a place where both of you won’t be distracted so you can listen better.
Talk in a calm, respectful voice. Try not to argue. or whine.
P.S. If for some reason you feel like you can’t talk to your parents about a problem, you can talk to another adult you trust, like a teacher or Church leader. You are loved!