“6: My Foundation: Solve Problems,” Finding Strength in the Lord: Emotional Resilience (2020)
“6: My Foundation: Solve Problems,” Finding Strength in the Lord: Emotional Resilience
My Foundation: Solve Problems—Maximum Time: 20 Minutes
Report:
Briefly share with the group a difficult task you were able to finish last week.
Ponder:
Why does Heavenly Father allow us to face problems and challenges?
Watch:
“A Bigger Truck?” available at https://churchofjesuschrist.org/study/video/self-reliance-videos. (No video? Read the transcript for “A Bigger Truck?”)
A Bigger Truck?
If you are unable to watch the video, read this script.
President Dallin H. Oaks:
Two men formed a partnership. They built a small shed beside a busy road. They obtained a truck and drove it to a farmer’s field, where they purchased a truckload of melons for a dollar a melon. They drove the loaded truck to their shed by the road, where they sold their melons for a dollar a melon.
They drove back to the farmer’s field and bought another truckload of melons for a dollar a melon. Transporting them to the roadside, they again sold them for a dollar a melon. As they drove back toward the farmer’s field to get another load, one partner said to the other, “We’re not making much money on this business, are we?” “No, we’re not,” his partner replied. “Do you think we need a bigger truck?”
(“Focus and Priorities,” Ensign, May 2001, 82)
Discuss:
What is the real problem in this story? What are some options for the two men?
Read:
The following scripture passage and statement by Elder Hales:
“Behold, you have not understood; you have supposed that I would give it unto you, when you took no thought save it was to ask me.
“But, behold, I say unto you, that you must study it out in your mind; then you must ask me if it be right, and if it is right I will cause that your bosom shall burn within you; therefore, you shall feel that it is right.
“But if it be not right you shall have no such feelings, but you shall have a stupor of thought that shall cause you to forget the thing which is wrong” (Doctrine and Covenants 9:7–9).
“The Lord expects us to help solve our own problems. … We are thinking, reasoning human beings. We have the ability to identify our needs, to plan, to set goals, and to solve our problems” (Robert D. Hales, “Every Good Gift,” New Era, Aug. 1983, 8, 9).
Read:
The following scripture passages:
“And now, if the Lord has such great power, and has wrought so many miracles among the children of men, how is it that he cannot instruct me, that I should build a ship?” (1 Nephi 17:51).
“Now I, Nephi, did not work the timbers after the manner which was learned by men, neither did I build the ship after the manner of men; but I did build it after the manner which the Lord had shown unto me; wherefore, it was not after the manner of men.
“And I, Nephi, did go into the mount oft, and I did pray oft unto the Lord; wherefore the Lord showed unto me great things” (1 Nephi 18:2–3).
Discuss:
How was Nephi able to build a ship?
Commit:
I will act on the steps we discussed in the activity to work on my problem. (Remember, don’t give up. It takes time to solve problems and make changes.)