Mahilaaen aur Ghar me Susamachaar Seekhna
Uddhaarkarta tumaar pefekt uddharan hai dikhaawe ke ki tum kaise Uske chaal chale me bhaag lega taaki ghar aur parivaar me susamachaar siksha pe zyaada zor hoga.
Mere priye bahano, aapse milke khushi hui. Yeh Ishu Masih ka Antim-dinon ke Santon ka Girjaghar me ek dilchasp samay hai. Prabhu Apne Girja ke baare me gyaan barsa raha hai jaise Usne vaada kiya tha.
Aapko yaad hai Usne kya kaha tha: “Kitna din tak behta paani maela sake rehwe? Kon shakti sake swarg long ke roke? Woh utna namumkin hai jitna ek aam aadmi ke liye apna kamzor haath badhakar Missouri nadi ke bahaao ko rokna hai, ya use ulti or bahana, jitna Sarvashaktimaan ko Antim-din Santon par swarg se gyaan barsae se rokna hai.”1
Prabhu ka aaj kal ka gyaan baatne ka kuch bhaag Unke logon ke sir pe aur dilon me anant sachchaai ke barsaat badhawe se taalukh rakhe hai. Usne yeh saaf rup se tay kiya hai ki Swarg ke Pitah ki putriyaan ek mukhye bhumika nibhaaegi us chamatkaari badhanti me. Ek saboot is chamatkaar ka hai kaise Woh Apne jiwit profat ko maarg dikha raha hai ghar aur parivaar me susamachaar ki siksha par zyaada gaor karne ke liye.
Aap long saait puchega, “Kaise sake isse vishwaasi bahan long ek aham taakat rehwe Prabhu ke madad kare me taaki u Apan Santon pe gyaan barsaai?” Prabhu jawaab “Parivaar: Duniya Ke Liye Ek Aupchaarik Ghoshna” me deis. Aap woh shabd jaante hai, lekin shaayad aap naya arth dekhenge aur pehchaanenge ki Prabhu ne in dilchasp badlaao ko pehle hi dekha tha, jo ab ho rahe hain. Ghoshna me, Usne bahano ko in shabdo me zimmedaari di thi parivaar me susamachaar ke mukhye shikshak hone ki: “Maataon ki mukhye zimmedaari hai apne bachchon ko paalna-posna.”2 Isme shaamil hai susamachaar ki sachchaai aur gyaan me paalna-posna.
Ghoshna me aage likha hai: “Pitaon aur maataon ka kartavvye hai ek dusre ki madad karna baraabri ke saathi ke rup me.”3 Woh baraabar ke saathi hai, dhaarmik badhanti aur gyaan paane ke sambhaona me baraabar, aur is tarah ek hote hai ek duje ki madad karke. Woh apne divye kismat me baraabar hai ek saath unnati paane me. Asal me, aadmi aur aurat akele unnati nahi paa sakte.
Phir, kyun, Parmeshwar ke ek beti ko ek jude huwe aur baraabar rishte me yeh mukhye zimmedaari diya gaya hai sabse zaroori poshtik tatva, swarg se praapt hua sachchaai ka gyaan, se sabhi ko paalna-posna? Meri samajh se, yahi Prabhu ka tarika raha hai jabse duniya me parivaaron ke banaya ge hai.
Jaise ki, u Eve raha jon jaan paais raha ki Adam ke chaahi gyaan ke ped ke fal khaao taaki u long saki Parmeshwar ke sab aagya ke paalan kare aur ek parivaar banawe. Hum nahi janta kaae Eve pehle i baat jaanis, lekin Adam aur Eve to ek raha jab Adam pe gyaan barsaawa ge raha.
Ek aur uddharan ki kaise Prabhu mahilaa long ke paale-pose la uphaar long ke istemaal karis hai mile hai Helaman ke beta long ke takatwar banawe ke tarika me. Hum jazbaati hoi jaata jab hum i skripcha la kahani padhta aur apan maa ke dhimi aashuwaasan ke shabd yaad karta jab hum military sewa me jaata raha.
Helaman likhis:
“Unko apne maataon se shiksha mili thi, ki agar unhonne daaut nahi kiya, tab Parmeshwar unki raksha karega.
“Unhonne apne maataon ke kahe huwe shabdo ko bhi mujhe sunaate huwe, kaha: Hum isme daaut nahi karte ki hamari maataen bhi yeh baate jaanti thi.”4
Jabki hum Prabhu ke sab wajah nahi janta kaae vishwaasi bahan long ke mukhye zimmedaari dewa ge raha parivaar ke paale-pose ke, hum biswaas karta u aap ke pyaar kare ke shakti se juda hai. Bahut pyaar chaahiye apan se jaada koi aur ke zarooraton ke mehsoos kare me. Yahi Masih ke shudh pyaar hai jiske tum paale-pose ke kostin. Dayaluta ke i ehsaas us se aata hai jon paale-pose ke nirnay lees Ishu Masih ke Praeshchit ke kaaran laayak banke. Sahayak Sanstha ka aadarsh waakye, jo meri maa ne uddharan diya, mujhe prerna se bhara laga: “Dayaluta Kabhi Nahin Asafal Hota.”
Parmeshwar ki betiyaan ke naate, tumhara ek vishesh aur mahaan haesiyat hai dusar long ke zaroorat jaan lewe ke aur pyaar kare ke. Iske, kaaran, tum Aatma ke fusfusaahaton ko pehchaan leti ho. Tab Aatma tumhe batawe sake kaise socho, kaise bolo, aur konchi karo logon ke paale-pose me jiss Prabhu u long ke uppar gyaan, sachchaai, aur saahas barsaae sake.
Aap bahane jon i bhaasan sunta hai sab apan jiwan ke safar me ek anokha jagah pe hai. Kuch choti ladkiyaan hai jo pehli baar maha mahilaaon ki sabha me aai hai. Kuch jawaan mahilaaen hai woh poshan karne waali banne ke liye jo Parmeshwar unhe banana chahata hai. Kuch nayi shaadi waale log hai jon ke abhi ladkan nahi hai; anye sab jawaan maataaen hai ek ya zyaada ladkan ke. Kuch yuwa ki maataen hai aur anye jon ke ladkan mission par hai. Kuch hai jon ke ladkan apan biswaas me kamzor hoi ge hai aur ghar se dur chale gaye hai. Kuch akele rehti hai bina ek vishwaasi saathi ke. Kuch naani aur aajiyaan hai.
To bhi, chaahe jo bhi tumhara niji paristhiti hai, tum Parmeshwar ke parivaar ka—ek zaroori bhaag—ho aur apne parivaar ka bhi, chaahe bhavishye me, is duniya me, ya aatmik duniya me. Parmeshwar tumme zimmedaari deis hai jitna howe sake Uske aur apan parivaar ke sadasye ke utna paalo-poso Prabhu, Ishu Masih me apan pyaar aur biswaas se.
Tumaar pehla samasya hai jaano kiske, kaise, aur kahan paalo-poso. Tumme Prabhu ke madad chahiye. U sabke dil ke baat jaane hai, aur U jaane kab u long aap ke paalan-poshan apnaawe ke kostin tayaar hai. Tumaar biswaas ke praathna tumaar safalta ke zariya rahi. Tum sakta Uske maargdarshan paawe pe nirbhar howe.
U i protsaahan deis: “Pitah se Uske naam se pucho, viswaas rakh ke ki tumme mili, aur tumaar paas Pavitra Aatma rahi, jon sab kuch dikhaawe hai jon zaroori hai.”5
Praathna ke sange, skripchas bhi maango gambheerta se padho jisse tumme paalan-poshan ke jaada shakti mili. I hai vaada: “Ki tumme wah pahale se nahi soche ke chaahi ki humme konchi bole ke hai; magar apan mann me sab taaim apan jiwan ke shabdon ko socho, aur phir tume wah bhaag mili wahi taaim jab tume zaroorat rahi.”6
Tab tum dher taaim le ke praathna, vichaar, aur dhyaan karega dhaarmik cheezo pe. Tum pe sachchaai ke gyaan barsaaya jaai aur tum apan parivaar me dusra long ke paale-pose ke shakti me badhaega.
Kuch aisan taaim rahi jab tum mehsoos karega ki behtar paale-pose ke tumaar shakti bahut aaste hai. Biswaas lagi aage badhte rehwe ke kostin. Uddhaarkarta tumme i protsaahan bhejis hai.
“Isliye, achchaai kare se nahi thake ke chaahi, kyunki tum ek mahaan kaam ke buniyaad shuru kar raha hai. Aur chote cheezon se mahaan cheezein paeda howe hai.
“Dekho, Prabhu ke dil aur taeyaar mann ke zaroorat hai; aur taeyaar aur aagyakaari i antim dinon me Zion ke dharti ke achchaai ke khaai.”7
Aaj raat ke tum long ke maojudgi saboot hai ki tum Prabhu ke nimantran swikaar karta dusar long ke paalan-poshan kare ke. Yeh uske liye bhi sach hai jo yahan aaj raat sabse chota hai. Tum jaante ho tumhe apne parivaar me kise paale-pose ke hai. Agar tum sachche iraade se praathna karoge, tumhare mann me ek naam ya chehra aaega. Agar tum praathna karoge jaanne ke liye kya karna hai ya kya kehna hai, tum jawaab mehsoos karoge. Har baar tum waisa karoge, paale-pose ke tumaar shakti badhegi. Tum us din ki taeyaari karogi jab tum apan ladkan ke paale-pose ga.
Yuvaaon ke maataen praathna kar sakte hai jaane ke kostin kaise ek beta ya beti ke paalo-poso jon paale-pose se dur hai. Tum saait praathna kare sakta jaane ke kostin ki tumaar ladkan pe kiske dhaarmik prabhaao theek rahi aur u uske swikaar kari. Parmeshwar chintit maata long ke i rakam ke dil se kare la praathna sune aur jawaab dewe hai, aur U madad bheje hai.
Aaj raat yahan ek naani ya aaji bhi hoi, jon apan ladkan aur naati/pota ke tanao aur mushkilo se dukhi hai. Shaayad tumhe saahas aur maargdarshan mile skripchas me parivaaron ke anubhavon se.
Eve aur Adam ke taaim se, Pitah Israel ke zariye, aur Mormon Dharamshaastra ke har ek parivaar tak, ek mahatwapurn seekh hai hum long baat nahi sune la ladkan ke dukh ke baare me konchi sakta kare: pyaar karte raho.
Hum long ke paas Uddhaarkarta ke protsaahit kare la uddharan hai jab U Apan Swarg ke Pitah ke vidrohi aatmik bachcho ke paalan-poshan karis raha. Tab bhi jab woh aur hum peeda dete the, Uddhaarkarta ka haath ab tak bada hua hai.8 Usne 3 Nephi me Apne dhaarmik bahano aur bhaaiyon ke baare me kaha jiske u paale-pose me utna asafal raha: “He tum … jo Israel ke gharane ke ho, jis tarah ek murgi apne bachcho ko apne pakhne ke niche bator leti hai, usi tarah maine kinti baar tumhe bator ke paala-posa hai.”9
Bahano ke liye jiwan ke har pehlu me, har parivaarik stithi me, aur har kalcha me, Uddhaarkarta tumaar pefekt uddharan hai dikhaawe ke ki tum kaise Uske chaal chale me bhaag lega taaki ghar aur parivaar me susamachaar siksha pe zyaada zor hoga.
Tum dayaluta ke apan paedaaeshi ehsaas apan parivaar ke ektiviti aur aadat long ke badle me laaega. Isse aatmik badhanti badhi. Jab tum apan parivaar ke sadasyon ke sange praathna karega, tum apna aur Uddhaarkarta ke prem u long ke liye mehsoos karega. Dhire dhire i tumaar aatmik uphaar ban jaai jab tum uske ichcha karega. Tumaar parivaar ke sadasye long ke ehsaas hoi jab tum zyaada biswaas se praathna karega.
Jab parivaar milke skripchas jor se padhi, tum pehle se u padh lega aur uske baare me praathna kar lega apne aap ke taeyaar kare ke kostin. Tumme waisan pal mili jab tum praathna kar lega ki Aatma tume samajh dei. Tab, jab tumaar padhe ke paari rahi, parivaar ke sadasye long Parmeshwar aur Uske vachan ke kostin tumaar pyaar mehsoos kari. U long ke Usse aur Uske Aatma se paalan-poshan mili.
Wahi barsaat koi bhi parivaar sangathan me sake howe agar tum uske kostin praathna karega aur yojna banaega. Uske kostin saait koshish aur taaim lagi, par usse chamatkaar bhi hoi. Chota me hamaar maa ke sikhaaya ek seekh hamme yaad hai. Abhi bhi hum sakta u rang-biranga naksha(map) achcha se yaad kare jon u banais raha Devdut Paul ke yaatra long ke. Hamme aashcharye howe ki kaise uske utna taaim aur josh mila u kare ke. Aur aaj tak u biswaasi Devdut ke liye uske pyaar se hamme ashish mile hai.
Tum sab sakta Prabhu ke punahsthaapit Girja me apan parivaar me sachchaai ke barsaat ke tarika dhoondhe me haath batae. Tum sab sakta praathna, stady, aur soche se jaane konchi tumaar anokha yogdaan rahi. Par hum aap sab ke baare me ek baat janta hai, Parmeshwar ke beta long ke sange milke, tum ek mukhye bhumika nibhaaega susamachaar shiksha aur jiwan ke chamatkaar me jisse Israel ka ikattha hona jald pura hoi aur Parmeshwar ke parivaar taeyaar hoi Prabhu Ishu Masih ke vishaal lautne ki. Ishu Masih ke pavitra naam se, amen.