“Contents,” Ensign, Sept. 1981 Ensign September 1981 Volume 11 Number 9 Contents Special Features First Presidency Message: We Believe in Being ChastePresident Marion G. Romney What the Lord Requires of FathersElder Robert L. Backman “I’m Brother Hughes, Your Home Teacher”W. Martine Bates Different Directions, Different MethodsCarolyn Manning Brink “Be of Good Cheer”: The Jimmy Lawrence LegacyMary Kay Peirce Why Our Toddlers Enjoy Home EveningMarion D. Stewart Disaster on the MissouriGeri Berbert Three HousesKenley Reese For Husbands and WivesMaking a Marriage Work Elder Hugh W. PinnockBreaking the Cycle: A Case Study of Conflict in Marriage C. Ross ClementTaking Action—with a Plan! S. Brent ScharmanGetting to Know You Better: A Marriage Quiz Brent A. BarlowThoughts on Marriage Compatibility Classical BasketballTamera Smith Allred Confessions of a Non-GourmetAnya C. Bateman Catherine’s Faith: Vignettes from the Life of Catherine Jane Cottam RomneyClifford J. Stratton and Marsha Romney Stratton “Why Must I Live So Long?”Judy Grigg Hansen Regular Features PoetryA Sacrament Hymn Orson Scott CardSacramental Sonnet John S. TannerSacrament Thoughts Val Camenish Wilcox I Have a QuestionRobert J. MatthewsGayle Platt Spjut Speaking Today: “Let Your Light So Shine”Elder Dean L. Larsen Sharing Mirthright: Living with My Son’s Chest of DrawersCamilla M. Northrup Random Sampler Comment Mormon JournalA Letter Made the Difference Mary Johansen“For without Me Ye Can Do Nothing” Mark HartFoster Children—Our Blessing Mary F. GoodmanHow I “Found Time” for Gospel Study Ardelle Holderness“I Saved Sharee!” R. Gene Allphin Fiction: Bus StopPatty Redd Kennington News of the Church