“Whosoever will save his life shall lose it,” the Savior taught, “but whosoever will lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it” (Luke 9:24).
Of this admonition President Thomas S. Monson said: “I believe the Savior is telling us that unless we lose ourselves in service to others, there is little purpose to our own lives. Those who live only for themselves eventually shrivel up and figuratively lose their lives, while those who lose themselves in service to others grow and flourish—and in effect save their lives.” 1
It can be difficult to find the necessary time and energy to help our family, neighbors, ward or branch members, community, and even strangers. When do we help and how, especially when each of us has a finite amount of time? How do we serve when our circumstances limit our abilities?
Our Exemplar is, of course, the Savior Jesus Christ, who has invited us to follow Him (see Matthew 4:19). Although we do not share His divine calling, we can share in His ministry. Describing that ministry, the Apostle Peter said that Jesus “went about doing good” (Acts 10:38).
Jesus healed the sick and ministered to the afflicted (see Matthew 9:20–22; Mark 8:22–25). Perhaps we will not perform the same mighty miracles, but we can comfort and minister to the needs of those who are dying, ill, or mourning.
The Savior miraculously fed those who had no food (see Matthew 14:15–21). We can give generous fast offerings, serve in Church welfare food-production projects, and contribute to community efforts to feed the needy.
Jesus was aware of and ministered to the individual (see Luke 8:45–48). As we seek to follow His example, the Spirit will open our eyes to see the suffering, the lonely, the estranged. And we can be guided to help meet their needs.
Jesus spent time with others, even when He hadn’t planned to (see Luke 24:29) and even when He was dealing with His own concerns (see Matthew 14). We are counseled to give service in a wise and orderly way and not to “run faster than [we have] strength” (Mosiah 4:27). But sometimes our greatest opportunities to serve and bless come when it is least convenient. In the Savior’s parable, the good Samaritan interrupted his journey, then and there, to minister to the stricken man’s needs (see Luke 10:30–37).
No one was beneath the Savior’s notice or too low for Him to reach out to (see Matthew 9:9–13). As the Savior did, so can we love and lift others, teaching them a better way and inviting them to join us in the abundant life the Savior offers.
Heavenly Father knows our unique abilities, circumstances, and desires, and He knows how we can use them to bless others. As we draw closer to Him and seek His direction, He will help us know whom, where, and how to serve.
Visit the Service section of ChurchofJesusChrist.org for ideas about serving in the Church, in your community, in missionary capacities, and in humanitarian service.
- H. David Burton, “Tender Hearts and Helping Hands,” April 2006 general conference.
- Gordon B. Hinckley, “I Was an Hungered, and Ye Gave Me Meat,” April 2004 general conference.
- Dallin H. Oaks, “Unselfish Service,” April 2009 general conference.
- Marion G. Romney, “Church Welfare—Temporal Service in a Spiritual Setting,” April 1980 general conference.
- Thomas S. Monson, “What Have I Done for Someone Today?” October 2009 general conference.