“Contents,” New Era, Oct. 2002New EraOctober 2002 Volume 32, Number 10ContentsWords of the Prophet: Forget Yourself and GoPresident Gordon B. HinckleyOut of a spirit of appreciation and gratitude and a sense of duty, each young man should choose to serve a mission.Taking My Own AdviceBenjamin C. TyauI was telling my friend how to get answers to her prayers, then I tried my own advice.Your Friend the BishopElder Henry B. EyringWhen it’s time to meet in a one-on-one interview with your bishop, you won’t find someone scary, you’ll find a friend.What Great Brothers DoMatt BennettMy older brothers taught me what it takes to be a good athlete and a great man.Q&A: Questions and AnswersOne of the deacons in my quorum is so disruptive that it is nearly impossible to learn anything from the lessons or enjoy quorum activities. He never settles down. How can I help him?New Era Poster: Don’t Try Bending the RulesSacrament ServiceMatthew BakerTaking the sacrament to hospital patients gives these young men new appreciation for this sacred ordinance.FrecklesAmanda ThomasMy older sister let me know she loved me by counting my freckles. I used her unselfish example in letting the children I was helping know I loved them.The Voice of His ServantsThe modern prophets give their testimonies of Jesus Christ as a witness to this dispensation.Of All ThingsDanger Ahead! Avoiding Pornography’s TrapPornography is spiritually destructive. Here’s advice on how to avoid it and how to escape if you are hooked.Idea List: Home ImprovementHow can you do your part in making your family close and loving? Here are some suggestions.The Extra SmileWhat You Are Meant to BeMargaret D. NadauldEven before this earth life, you were a son or daughter of God. He trusts you to perform a grand and glorious mission during our time here on earth.Someone’s AngelBenjamin IrelandShe had prayed for help and comfort. Who knew that we would be her angels?Reader’s GuideWe’ve Got MailPoem: Loving StillHolly Jo WestonPhoto of the MonthLana LeishmanCover: Taking the sacrament to members who are sick is a sacred priesthood duty. See “Sacrament Service” on p. 20. (Cover photography: front, Matthew Baker; back, Welden C. Andersen.)