Suicide
Could I Have Done More to Prevent My Child’s Suicide?

“Could I Have Done More to Prevent My Child’s Suicide?” Loss Survivors (2018).

“Could I Have Done More?” Loss Survivors.

Could I Have Done More to Prevent My Child’s Suicide?

As a parent, you may feel guilty for not recognizing the warning signs of suicide. Or you might think that you could have been more understanding or patient. But from the day your child was born, they were influenced by other people, by their environment, and by their own thoughts and feelings—beyond the control of a loving parent. And just as you have agency to choose one thing from another, your child was blessed with their own agency. You are not responsible for your child’s choice to end their life. Despite your best efforts, not all suicides can be prevented.

These principles also apply to a spouse, child, or friend who has lost a loved one by suicide. You are not to blame for your loved one’s suicide.

If you continue to feel intense pain or grief, counsel with someone you trust and prayerfully seek help. Consider asking for a priesthood blessing or connecting with resources in your area, such as health care professionals or grief support groups.

Church and Community Resources

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