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Friends, brothers, and sisters, we each have a story.
As we discover our story, we connect, we belong, we become.
My name is Gerrit Walter Gong.
Gerrit is a Dutch name.
Walter, my father's name, is an American name.
Gong, of course, is a Chinese name.
Experts estimate some 70 to 110 billion people have lived on the earth.
Perhaps only one has been named Gerrit Walter Gong.
We each have a story.
I love the rain on my face and the wind as it rushes by.
I waddle with penguins in Antarctica.
I give orphans in Guatemala, street, kids in Cambodia, Maasai women in the African Mara their first very own photo of themselves.
I wait at the hospital as each of our children is born.
Once, the doctor has me help.
I trust God.
I believe we are that we might have joy, that there are times and seasons to everything under heaven.
Do you know your story?
what your name means?
World population grew from 1.1 billion people in 1820 to nearly 7.8 billion in 2020.
The year 1820 seems to be an inflection point in history.
Many born after 1820 have living memory and records to identify several family generations.
Can you think of a special, sweet memory with a grandparent or other family member?
Whatever the total number of individuals who have lived on the earth, it is finite, countable, one person at a time.
You and I, we each matter.
And please consider this.
Whether or not we know them, we're each born of a mother and father.
And each mother and father is born of a mother and father by birth or adoptive lineage.
We're ultimately all connected in the family of God and in the human family.
Born AD 837, my 30th great-grandfather First Dragon Gong started our family village in southern China.
The first time I visited Gong village, the people said, "Wenhan
huilaile" ("Gerrit has returned").
On my mother's side, our living family tree includes thousands of family names
with more to discover.
We each have more family with whom to connect.
If you think your great-aunt has completed all your family genealogy, please find your cousins and cousins' cousins.
Connect your living memory family names with the 10 billion searchable names
FamilySearch now has in its online collection and the 1.3 billion individuals in its family tree.
Ask friends or family to draw a living tree.
As President Russell M. Nelson teaches, living trees have branches and roots.
Whether you or your first or tenth known generation, connect yesterday for tomorrow.
Connect the roots and branches in your living family tree.
The question "Where are you from?" asks lineage, birthplace, home, country, or homeland.
Globally, 25% of us trace our homeland to China, 23% to India, 17% to other Asia Pacific, 18% to Europe, 10% to Africa, 7% to the Americas.
The question "Where are you from?" also invites us to discover our divine identity and spiritual purpose in life.
We each have a story.
A family I know connected five family generations when they visited their old home in Winnipeg, Canada.
There, the grandfather told his grandsons about the day two missionaries- he called them angels from heaven- brought the restored gospel of Jesus Christ, changing their family forever.
A mother I know invited her children and their cousins to ask their great-
grandmother about her childhood experiences.
Great-grandma's adventures and life lessons are now a treasured family book
uniting generations.
A young man I know is compiling a dad journal.
Years ago, a car hit and killed his father.
Now to know his father, this courageous young man is preserving childhood
memories and stories from family and friends.
When asked where meaning comes in life, most people rank family first.
This includes family living and gone before.
Of course, when we die, we don't cease to exist.
We continue to live on the other side of the veil.
Still very much alive, our ancestors deserve to be remembered.
We remember our heritage through oral histories, clan records and family stories, memorials or places of remembrance, celebrations with photos, foods, or items which remind us of loved ones.
Think of where you live.
Isn't it wonderful how your country and community remember and honor ancestors, family, others who served and sacrificed?
For example, at the Harvest Remembrance in South Molton, Devonshire, England, Sister Gong and I loved finding the little church and community where generations of our Baden family lived.
We honor our ancestors by opening the heavens through temple and family history work and by becoming a welding link in the chain of our generations.
In this age of "I choose me," societies benefit when generations connect in meaningful ways.
We need roots to have wings, real relationships, meaningful service, life beyond fleeting social media veneers.
Connecting with our ancestors can change our lives in surprising ways.
From their trials and accomplishments, we gain faith and strength.
From their love and sacrifices, we learn to forgive
and move forward.
Our children become resilient.
We gain protection and power.
Ties with ancestors increase family closeness, gratitude, miracles.
Such ties can bring help from the other side of the veil.
Just as joys come in families, so can sorrows.
No individual is perfect, nor is any family.
When those who should love, nurture, and protect us fail to do so, we feel abandoned, embarrassed, hurt.
Family can become a hollow shell.
Yet with heaven's help, we can come to understand our family and make peace
with each other.
Sometimes unwavering commitment to abiding family relationships helps us accomplish hard things. In some cases, community becomes family.
A remarkable young woman whose troubled family moved frequently found a loving church family wherever she was to nurture and give her place.
Genetics and family patterns influence but do not determine us.
God wants our families to be happy and forever.
Forever is too long if we make each other unhappy, and happy is too short
if cherished relationships stop with this life.
Through sacred covenants, Jesus Christ offers His love, power, and grace to
change us and heal our relationships.
Selfless temple service for dear ones makes our Savior's Atonement real for them and us.
Sanctified we can return home to God's presence as families united eternally.
Each of our stories is a journey still in progress as we discover,
create, and become with possibilities beyond imagination.
The Prophet Joseph said, “It may seem to some.. . a bold doctrine that we [speak] of- a power which records or binds on earth and binds in heaven." The sociality we create here can exist with the eternal glory there.
Indeed, we without our family members cannot be made perfect.
Neither can they without us be made perfect.
What can we do now?
First, imagine your image reflected back and forth between two mirrors of eternity.
In one direction, picture yourself as daughter, granddaughter, great-granddaughter.
In the other direction, smile at yourself as aunt, mother, grandmother.
In each time and role, notice who's with you.
Gather their photos and stories.
Make their memories real.
Record their names, experiences, key dates.
They're your family- the family you will have and the family you want.
As you perform temple ordinances for family members, a manifestation of the Holy Ghost, the spirit of Elijah will knit the hearts of your fathers, mothers, and children together in love.
Second, let the adventure of family history be intentional and spontaneous.
Call your grandmother.
Look deeply into the eyes of that new baby.
Learn and acknowledge with gratitude and honesty your family heritage.
Celebrate and become the positive.
And where needed, humbly do everything possible not to pass on the negative.
Let good things begin with you.
Third, visit FamilySearch.org.
Download the available mobile apps.
See how you're related to people in the room.
How easy and rewarding it is to add names to your living family tree.
Fourth, help unite families eternally.
Remember the demographics of heaven.
There are more on the other side of the veil than on this side.
As more temples come closer to us, please offer those waiting for temple ordinances opportunity to receive them.
The promise at Easter and always is that in and through Jesus
Christ, we become our best story and our families can become happy
and forever.
In all our generations, Jesus Christ heals the brokenhearted, delivers
the captives, sets at liberty them that are bruised.
Covenant belonging with God and each other includes knowing our spirit and body will be reunited in resurrection, and our most precious
relationships can continue beyond death with a fulness of joy.
We each have a story.
Come discover yours.
Come find your voice, your song, your harmony in Him.
This is the very purpose for which God created the heavens and the earth
and saw that they were good.
Praise God's plan of happiness, Jesus Christ's Atonement, continuing restoration in His gospel and Church.
Please come find your family, all your generations, and bring them home.
In the sacred and holy name of Jesus Christ, amen.