When I got called to be the
deacons quorum president, I felt a great sense of
responsibility on my shoulders that I should be watching out
for everybody in the quorum. I met Dayton in our
deacons quorum at church. Dayton has cerebral palsy. He can't talk or
communicate that well, but you can feel his spirit. He should have the opportunity
to do what everybody else does. We've always tried to include
him in everything that we do. Along the way, we
found out that he just loves the wind in his face. Spencer knelt down
right in front of Dayton and grabbed him on his knees. And he said, "Dayton,
would you like to do a triathlon with me?" Dayton doesn't communicate,
other than he'll blink for "yes" and he
won't blink for "no." And he started blinking. He said, "Dad, he said yes." It was a different experience
than the other triathlons I've done because when
I got on that bike, it felt harder pulling someone
else with me the entire way. I knew that Dayton was within
five feet of me the whole time. It was awesome to know
that there was someone else there, one of my
really good friends, that could be with me.
I've learned great
lessons of love from a boy that does what
Christ would do if He were here and who is fulfilling
his responsibility as a deacons quorum
president and as a friend. Near the finish line was very
spiritual for Dayton and me because he kind of
shows me that you can do hard things no matter
what your challenges are or what the circumstances are. I felt that I was out of
juice; I was out of energy. But then--I don't even
know where it came from. Dayton started smiling,
and I started to speed up. I had the energy to sprint
the last few hundred yards into the finish line, and I just
felt great at the finish line. I didn't feel like I was
drained of my energy. I felt that the Spirit was there
helping Dayton and me to finish that race. He doesn't want to look
like the hero at all. He wants Dayton to
look like the hero, and he's just Dayton's legs. I feel blessed to be able
to hold the priesthood. I feel that Heavenly
Father and my bishop, they have a lot of trust
in me that I can do service for others, and I act on what
I think needs to be done.